Mother of Delhi Gang Rape Victim hospitalized after her Cremation

The Mother of Delhi Gang Rape Victim Damini had to be hospitalized at  Deen Dayal Upadhyay Hospital after her body was taken to crematorium for last rites. Her Condition is stable.

Meri bachchi ko mere paas rehne do, usey mujhse door mat karo (don’t take my daughter away from me, let her remain with me)” were  the crying words  of  Rape Victim’s mother  as the body of her young daughter was being taken to the crematorium.

The mother fainted several times in grief after the body was brought to their family home in Mahavir Enclave in southwest Delhi early  morning.

“As soon as the body was taken away for cremation, the mother collapsed,” Vimla, a neighbour, told IANS.

The body of the young woman, who became the focus of countrywide protests and prayers, was flown in from Singapore at 3.30 a.m. and taken to the family home at 4.25 a.m. It was kept there for about two hours before being taken to the crematorium in Dwarka Sector 19.
In a rare gesture, Prime Minister Manmohan Singh and Congress chief Sonia Gandhi went to the airport late wintry night to receive the body of the 23-year-old who was brutally assaulted and gang-raped by six men Dec 16 night in a moving bus in the national capital.

Delhi Chief Minister Sheila Dikshit and union Minister of State for Home Affairs R.P.N. Singh were present at the crematorium in southwest Delhi early morning.

The cremation was held at 7.25 a.m. away from public glare just after sunrise with only family members, close neighbours and a handful of government officials present. A dense fog added to the gloominess of the last rites. Plans for the cremation were kept a secret till the very end.

“I was there as a representative of the government,” Singh told IANS. He said the funeral was held in secrecy “as we wanted to respect the privacy of the family”.

Singh said the body was brought to the cremation ground at 6.26 a.m. after which the rites were performed, including bathing the body and dressing it in a new attire.

The mother was sobbing inconsolably over the body and fainted several times, said neighbours.

“When the body was being put in an ambulance to be taken to the crematorium at around 6.15 a.m., the mother pleaded, ‘Don’t touch my daughter’s body’, and fainted,” said a next-door neighbour. Family members and friends sprinkled water on her face to bring her back to consciousness.

“I don’t want to let my daughter go alone, please let her remain with me,” the grief-stricken mother pleaded again and again, before she fell unconscious.

She was taken to Deen Dayal Upadhyay Hospital after her daughter was cremated around 7.30 a.m.

According to one of the neighbours, after the Dec 16 brutal gang-rape and torture of her daughter, the mother had hardly eaten any food, and her health had deteriorated. She has already been keeping unwell for the past few months, another neighbour told IANS.
Since Saturday evening, a large number of people, mostly neighbours, were assembling outside the family’s home to condole the torture victim’s death.

The house, an unplastered brick structure, comprises two small ordinary rooms, also unplastered. The house belongs to a relative, who stays in one of the rooms while the entire family of the young woman – parents and two brothers – stay in the other room. The family room has bare minimum furnishing. They have been staying there for the past two and a half years.

Many residents of  Mahavir Enclave visited the house in a steady stream since morning to offer condolences and their support to the traumatised family. But, not finding the family members at home, as they were in hospital with the mother, the neighbours got restive and began shouting slogans demanding justice for the dead woman and punishment to the rapists.

“We want Justice”, “Hang the rapists!”, “Hate liquor that turns people into beasts”, were among the slogans that the people were shouting.

When the IANS correspondent was searching for the house and asked some residents the whereabouts, the neighbors said emphatically in unison: “She is our daughter.”

“Every house in this street belongs to her,” said Vimla.

According to Vimla, the family of the dead woman was “very poor”.

The parents had sold a plot of land nearby as well as land in their village in Ballia district of eastern Uttar Pradesh to fund their daughter’s education.

“Now her elder brother, who is preparing for his engineering entrance exams, has no hope to continue his studies. The family had depended on her future career to see them out of their poverty,” Vimla told IANS.

Ranvir Sirohi, another resident of Mahavir Enclave, told IANS that the victim’s father is a loader at the Delhi airport and has been “saving every penny to make his daughter a doctor”.

In order to see the dream fulfilled, the family did not care to shift to better accommodation, he said.

Now the dream lies shattered.